The most dramatic and outstanding event of every life is the death.
This subject has not been at the focus of my attention until one day
this phrase come into my head in all its odd integrity. And it stuck there as a
kind of definition. Since my own experience tells me that no thought comes
without a reason, then I decided that this case is worthy of attention or, at
least, some consideration.
And this thought was definitely worth consideration. If you'd think
about it, you'd realize that the death is the only event that occurs really
once in a lifetime. We are not speaking about those extremely rare cases, which
are only confirming the general rule by their exclusivity.
precisely because of its exclusivity, it is the only event which we are preparing
for, our entire lives. And this preparation has shown us the full range of
human ideas and emotions.
This range extends from the complete
and careless optimism, which pushes death itself beyond the frames of
consciousness to the realm of the deepest and hidden unconscious fears. In this
case in everyday's life death simply is not being taken into consideration at
all. A person lives and acts trying to avoid any reminders or thoughts about
the death, like a student who enjoys freedom and carelessness during the
semester and considers the coming exams as a distant and quite hypothetical
On the other pole there is
the conscious and rigorous preparation for death. In this case the whole life itself
is falling out of the basket, because it is considered as an annoying delay
before something much more interesting and enjoyable. For those life seems a
tedious waiting in a lobby, in a company of non-familiar and stranger people
before the start of a movie or a show, which is definitely bound to start, but
when - God only knows.
The most important thing is
that according to the channeling information and according to the records of
the psychologists dealing with the regression into past lifetimes, both extreme
points of the person's life are accompanied with the same feelings of others who
surround this very person. These feelings just change their color from positive
to negative and vice versa depending on where we are coming from and where we
are going to.
In any case, person's departure
from the one plane of existence brings to the ones that remain a feeling of
deep sadness; and their arrival to another plane – the joy of a new meeting. In
this manner, those feelings flip in the zero-points of our oscillation between embodied
and subtle states during our countless incarnations.
But there is a little difference.
As I perceive it, our friends and loved ones seeing us off to this side
of veil, feel the sadness of parting still comparable, to my mind, with the
feeling that arise when you see off your loved one to the long and arduous
journey. I would say – to a business trip. You are sorry. You still don't know
when you'll meet again, because despite the fact that the term of an earthy
incarnation is more or less known, you can, meanwhile, leave somewhere else as
well. But, in any case, there is no irreparableness there. Anyway you will meet
again, updated, more wise and experienced and it will be a great joy. You will
have a lot to share with each other and a lot to remember. This knowledge and
the absolute knowledge, not subjected by even a shadow of doubt, brightens, I
think, this sadness and the pain of parting.
On earthy plane, in the realm of form it is different.
This is not my idea. It is certainly not a new one, but nevertheless it
is true. While leaving the earthy plane of existence, everyone takes from here
their Entire Complete Unique Universe that Will Never Ever Happen Again. Yes,
the Soul will incarnate again and again. Yes, we'll meet there on the other
side of the veil and will happily discuss these adventures with "friends"
and with "enemies". Yes, we will likely meet the same Souls during
other embodiments, because we apparently are working with the same wide, albeit
limited circle of Souls. But we'll never meet with the SAME PERSON. Everything
that is gone – is gone FOREVER.
The experience gained on Earth will be loaded into the treasury; will be
written down into Akashi, added to Universal Database, anything you would want,
and will remain available for future use. But on the earthy plane, just because
of its uniqueness, this very experience will never be repeated. And the very
event of death creates this uniqueness. Precisely in this very moment everything
that a specific person did, thought and felt became absolutely UNIQUE and,
therefore takes an immense value. That is why the moment of death is so
important for all of us. That is why we are so afraid of it and prepare for it
during our entire life.
Why am I saying all this? Because the grief felt by those remaining is
not only legitimate and has a real basis, but not mitigated, in general, even
by the knowledge of the future meeting "on the other side". I tell
this all because the happiness of the new Soul's arrival is overshadowed always
by underlying understanding that this new experience is transient as well. And
I tell it because sometimes by the different reasons, sometimes simply be
neglect and sometimes because of "ideological considerations" we do
not appreciate or insufficiently appreciate such a UNIQUE UNIVERSAL EVENT as a
If you love someone – LOVE THEM NOW. Even if you'd meet this person in a
next lifetime and would love them (it is possible that you'd become enemies?),
you will not recognize them and your love will be DIFFERENT.
LOVE YOUR BELOVED NOW!
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